don’t be a d*ck
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A podcast · launching autumn 2026

Don’t be a d*ck.

Conversations about leadership, psychological safety, and the quietly radical skill of being decent at work. Not the poster-on-the-wall kind. The real kind.

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fig.1: the common workplace mallard. Mostly harmless. Occasionally not.
What the show is about

It comes down to a handful of old ideas.

None of them complicated. All of them, somehow, still hard.

01
Leadership without the ego.

Not the loudest voice in the room. The one that makes room for everyone else’s.

02
Psychological safety.

The freedom to say “I don’t know” and keep your standing. It isn’t soft; it’s how good work actually gets made.

03
Civility as a skill.

Manners you can learn and practise, not a personality you were or weren’t born with.

04
Kindness that isn’t performative.

Less “bring your whole self to work”. More being decent when it’s genuinely inconvenient.

05
Difference, and meeting in the middle.

How we work well with people whose minds run differently. Which brings us to the part we care about most.

A neurodivergent lens

We keep coming back to one question: who’s expected to do the adapting?

Too often, the work of fitting in falls on neurodivergent people alone, as though they were the problem to be solved. They aren’t.

So we treat it as a two-way street. Practical tools for navigating a world built with someone else in mind, and a genuine nudge for everyone else to walk the other way to meet them. Balance, not burden.

Different, not less. And certainly not the problem.
Your hosts

We’re Mick and Emily. One of us leads engineering teams for a living, the other works in healthcare, helping people feel safe enough to speak up when something’s wrong. Different rooms, same conviction: it doesn’t have to be this hard.

Mick
Emily
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don’t be a d*ck
A podcast about not being one. © 2026
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